Grounded or Date Player Two: is your best evening outside or at a screen?

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The quickest way to pick between these two: think about your last good Saturday and where you spent it.

Both sites are run by HubPeople, and both exist because a general dating app cannot tell the difference between someone who says they like something and someone who organises their week around it.

Grounded is for people whose life is shaped by the countryside. Date Player Two is for gamers, and for the people who would rather be at a screen with somebody than out in the wind with them. Neither is better. They are just for different Saturdays.

At a glance

Which one fits

Grounded and Date Player Two compared
Grounded Date Player Two
The thing everyone shares The countryside, country work or the outdoors Gaming, and the culture around it
A good weekend looks like A walk, a market, a show, a horse or a dog A long session, a co-op run, a convention
Who it suits Farmers, rural residents, walkers, riders, growers Gamers, geeks and anyone who wants a player two
Typical age All ages, with a strong forties to sixties core Skews younger
Cost to look Free to register and browse Free to register and browse
Best if You would rather be outside You would rather be at the screen

You can be both, and plenty of people are

Rural broadband has come a long way and a lot of our members game. Somebody who lambs in March and plays through November is not unusual, and neither site would tell you to choose.

If that is you, pick the one that matches the thing you would least want to compromise on, and look at the other one too. Both are free to register.

Why a niche site works at all

On a general app "I love the outdoors" and "I game a bit" both appear on thousands of profiles and neither tells you anything. The words are cheap because everybody uses them.

A site built for one thing does the filtering before you type a word. That is the entire argument for both of these sites, and it is the same argument in both cases.

What is the same

Same platform, same safety approach. Photos and messages screened as they go up, member ratings built from behaviour, one tap blocking and human moderation. Free registration on both, with a proper look around before you pay anything.

Where to go

Date Player Two is at dateplayertwo.com (opens in a new tab). If your best day is out on a hill instead, have a look at outdoor dating on Grounded.

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Common questions

Things people ask about this

Can I be on Grounded if I game as well?

Of course. A lot of members do both, and rural winters are long. Pick the site that matches the thing you would least want to compromise on, and look at the other one too.

Are the HubPeople sites all connected?

They run on the same platform, so safety, moderation and free registration work the same way across them. The member lists are separate.

Which of the two sites is bigger?

They serve different audiences and both are niche by design. The more useful question is how many people either one returns within 50 miles of your postcode, which you can check for free on both.

Does Grounded skew older?

Grounded has members of all ages over 18, with a strong core in the forties to sixties. Date Player Two skews younger.

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The other comparisons

The other HubPeople sites, and the parts of Grounded worth seeing first.

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