You can be both, and plenty of people are
Rural broadband has come a long way and a lot of our members game. Somebody who lambs in March and plays through November is not unusual, and neither site would tell you to choose.
If that is you, pick the one that matches the thing you would least want to compromise on, and look at the other one too. Both are free to register.
Why a niche site works at all
On a general app "I love the outdoors" and "I game a bit" both appear on thousands of profiles and neither tells you anything. The words are cheap because everybody uses them.
A site built for one thing does the filtering before you type a word. That is the entire argument for both of these sites, and it is the same argument in both cases.
What is the same
Same platform, same safety approach. Photos and messages screened as they go up, member ratings built from behaviour, one tap blocking and human moderation. Free registration on both, with a proper look around before you pay anything.
Where to go
Date Player Two is at dateplayertwo.com (opens in a new tab). If your best day is out on a hill instead, have a look at outdoor dating on Grounded.